I have vowed to get into better shape this year because I have realized I am way more out of shape then I thought. I have some tax money and I need to figure out what the best thing to get would be. With 3 younguns and a 70 hour a week job, I have no time to go to a gym. I am looking at home gym equip. I have a nice bench with a bar already, but need more. Here is what I am torn between. Buying a bowflex gym, or just buying some free weight dumbells to go with my bench. What would you guys do? I read on here how much everyone loves there bowflex, but I know free weights are better somehow. What would you do??