hey all, i know it's been awhile since my last post, but, i have been busy trying to get cindy healthy from her cancer. glad to say that she's done with the radiation treatments, but, the doctors won't give her a good bill of health until she's cancer free for 5 years. now with the bad news, the divorce is still on and we went on monday for our first court appointment. her and her lawyer started by asking for 3 grand a month for allimony. the judge laughed at her. so he ordered that we both contribute to the bills every month. he also referred us to family services for some kind of counsiling. cindy's is very angry that i'm asking for shared parenting and co/ parenting. i made the suggestion that since i have the kids more than she does.. that we sell the house and divide the money and that when she has the kids i don't pay nothing and when i have the kids she doesn't pay me nothing. i just want to stay active in my kids lives as much as i can.