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Ashes of Loved Ones Turned Into Diamonds

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by AndroDoug, Dec 18, 2004.

  1. AndroDoug

    AndroDoug Duke of Bucketmouth

    Interesting read in this mornings Akron Beacon Journal...

    ST. LOUIS - When William Lucas' mother died nearly two years ago, he found an unusual way to keep her memory close at hand.

    The general contractor from Kitty Hawk, N.C., had some of ``Momma Luke's'' ashes converted into three synthetic blue diamonds, each about a third of a carat. One is set into his wedding band.

    ``The analogies are endless -- Mom was radiant in life, a real gem,'' Lucas, 50. ``I can't express the connectedness I feel with this on my hand.''

    The diamonds were the work of LifeGem, a three-year-old company based in suburban Chicago that said it has crafted close to 1,000 of the diamonds for about 500 families in a business that is steadily growing.

    The company markets the diamonds in several countries, saying they offer a ``closeness and mobility'' you can't get from the traditional forms of commemoration, a tombstone at a burial site or an urn of ashes.

    ``I think more people are looking for more personal ways to remember somebody,'' says Dean VandenBiesen, LifeGem's vice president of operations. ``Rather than having ongoing mourning for someone's loss, people are wanting to celebrate a life.''

    Lucas read about LifeGem before his mother's January 2003 death from cancer at age 73. Always frugal, he recalled she initially objected to the cost but acknowledged ``once I take my last breath, it matters not.''

    He fulfilled her wish to be cremated and have her ashes scattered under the azaleas at an Episcopal church in Charlotte, N.C., but kept enough to make the three diamonds at a total cost of $9,000. Two stones will go to his college-age daughters after their studies are over, he said.

    ``I'm so pleased that I went ahead and did it,'' he said. ``I had my doubts and trepidations, but to me these gems are priceless, just like my mother.''

    LifeGem uses 8 ounces of a person's ashes, typically less than a tenth of a person's total cremated remains, to make a diamond through a process that can take a few months. Carbon extracted from the ashes is subjected to the extremes of heat and pressure, and the resulting stone is cut and faceted like any gem.

    Prices vary from about $2,500 for a quarter carat to about $14,000 for a full carat, VandenBiesen said.

    He said many families request more than one gem, with his company's largest order yet coming from a family that wanted 11. While he declined to provide numbers, he said the privately held company was making a profit, with sales exceeding projections. He said an expansion into Japan in October has resulted in a rush of orders.

    In the United States, more mourners could turn to the product as cremation is becoming an increasingly popular option. According to the Cremation Association of North America, the percentage of the dead that are cremated was nearly 28 percent in 2002, and is projected to rise to 35 percent in 2010 and 43 percent in 2025.

    Often, LifeGem's orders come through funeral directors. A LifeGem ``is a great way to pay tribute to someone's life,'' said Paul Baue, a third-generation director who has four funeral homes and a crematory in the St. Louis area.

    ...I wonder if you would be allowed to sell them on ebay??!! They have a clause that does not allow the sale of human remains. I wonder if that includes these!
  2. catking

    catking Banned

    Just when I thought I've read it all................. :rolleyes: ..CK ~**~

  3. shadowman

    shadowman Supreme Being

    i read an artical about this company several years ago when they 1st is totally ligitimant but pricey.........for those who can afford this what better way to keep the memory alive............... :cool:
  4. not for me...
    toss my ashes in the woods and water from where most of my enjoyment in this life came from...
  5. skipjack11

    skipjack11 retread member

    I'm having my ashes put in a Jack Daniels bottle. :eek: :D :D :D
  6. flathunter

    flathunter Mellons mentor

    Sounds kinda morbid to me!
  7. Darwin

    Darwin If your gonna be a bear..

    I read a while back where you could have your ashes loaded into shotgun shells then have your buddies give you a solute if you would choose.....
  8. rockbass

    rockbass Banned

    sounds like it could be a nice thing for people who would like it.......For me though, I say tie some bloks to me and let me swim with the fishes! save the money and have a party!
  9. EBAY- One Bob Marley ring for sale....Stoned in life and stoned in death. :D
  10. Pharley

    Pharley Hook 'Em

    Just seems freaky to me.
  11. wajski

    wajski retired pipefitter120/669 sprinkler fitter

    prop me up with a bottle in my hand, turn the gas on burn my arss into sand. I always said once I am dead it dosen't matter. Oh buy the way make it a Becks N/A. On the other side I heard of all kind of jewlery made from peoples ashes
  12. ApeShip

    ApeShip Silverback

    Dang, and I put my money in that Soylent Green firm.